Answers to commonly asked questions from the experts on Thervo.
How much does couples therapy cost?
Couples therapy costs$120 to $250 per session for in-person therapy or $90 to $230 per session for a virtual session. Your location, the therapist's experience, and the number of sessions you're buying also impact the price. Subscription services for online relationship counseling cost $50 to $100 per week.
Since most couples therapy lasts for 12 to 20 sessions, consider buying multiple sessions at once, as many therapists offer a reduced rate on multi-session packages.
Is couples therapy worth it?
Yes, couples therapy is worth it in most cases. Research shows about 75% of couples agree that emotionally focused therapy had a positive impact on their relationship.
To compare, getting a divorce costs$10,000 to $15,000 on average. Besides the high monetary expense, also consider the greater emotional costs of divorce, especially when children are involved.
Is couples therapy covered by insurance?
Most insurance companies do not cover couples therapy unless you or your partner has a medically diagnosed mental illness and the doctor prescribes therapy as part of the treatment.
If you or your partner work for a company that offers employer-sponsored group insurance, some businesses have Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) that often include individual and couples counseling.
How does couples therapy work?
In couples therapy, the therapist first assesses your personalities, needs, and triggers through conversation and often a written questionnaire. After assessing your relationship, the therapist works with you and provides you with tools to practice and improve your communication and conflict resolution skills.
The therapist may assign homework for you and your partner to work on alone or together in between sessions. The therapist may also schedule individual sessions to allow more open communication.
When should you go to couples therapy?
Any couple wanting to improve their relationship and communication could benefit from couples therapy. Emotional distance, infidelity, financial disagreements, lack of sexual intimacy, family challenges, and increased conflicts are all reasons to seek couples therapy.
How do I choose the best couples therapist near me?
When searching for couples therapy near you, be sure to:
Ask your primary care physician, trusted friends, or family members for recommendations.
Refer to the list of preferred providers if using your company’s Employee Assistance Program coverage.
Look for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs) with 2+ years of clinical experience.
Confirm their credentials and qualifications.
Read their reviews on Thervo, Google, and other online sources.
What questions should I ask when searching for a couples therapist?
Couples therapy is very personal. Consider asking the following question to help you find the best fit for you and your partner:
Are you a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT)?
How long have you been counseling couples?
What types of therapy do you specialize in?
Have you been successful helping other couples?
How long are your sessions?
How many sessions should we plan for?
What should we expect at our first session?
Do you assign homework between sessions?
What is your policy for cancellations, late arrivals, and missed appointments?
Do you offer a payment plan or sliding scale rates?
Reviews for San Francisco couples therapy services
Recent success stories from people in the San Francisco area.
James B.
I had very good experience working with Michele! I am especially impressed by how some of her practical advice--by which I mean specific actions and habits drawn from insights--has had a measurable positive effect on my daily life. Very satisfied!
Bodhi Biz LLC
Michelle V.
Debi takes the time to listen and help guide you through making decisions. She remains neutral at all times. You won’t find a better person to work on your relationship with.
Debi Stickeler, MA, CPC Individual and Relationship Coach
Kevin S.
She was excellent. On time, very thorough and sweet. Would highly recommend her to anyone wanting a wonderful, soothing, massage.
Asian Massage Please Text 650 740 6622 to schedule. I make house visit only
JF
I saw Eti for several years and strongly recommend him as a therapist. He helped get me through some difficult periods of transition in my life and I am eternally grateful for his words of wisdom and for his kind and gentle guidance. He is a superb listener who will never forget anything you tell him. I don't understand how he does not have more reviews but he certainly should.
Eti Valdez-Kaminsky, MFT
Sharee B.
Knowledge, flexibility, compassion. All 3 are apparent with the service and the therapist
Chazak LLC
Julie
Kathy helped me feel comfortable and safe
Kathy’s Confidence & Success Coaching & Therapy
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