Find a couples therapist in San Francisco, CA

Find Couples Therapists in San Francisco, CA

Find Couples Therapists in San Francisco, CA

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Top 10 couples therapists in San Francisco, CA

Clients agree: these San Francisco couples therapists are highly rated for knowledge, experience, communication, and more.
Lesley Skoloff

Lesley Skoloff

5.0Exceptional(26)
200 hires on Thervo
31+ years in business
Serves San Francisco, CA & Online
Mel S. says, "Very personable , very professional and results oriented I recommend her very highly" Read more
Healing Hands By Vaughn

Healing Hands By Vaughn

5.0(2)
2 hires on Thervo
10+ years in business
Serves San Francisco, CA
Michelle Y. says, "Vaughn is a very skilled massage therapist. He knows what he's doing. I have sciatica and he knew exactly how to apply the right pressure and how to move my legs in a way that didn't cause harm or pain. I felt refreshed after my massage and I plan to retain his services in the future!" Read more
Victoria Vogel, LMFT

Victoria Vogel, LMFT

New on Thervo
41+ years in business
Serves San Francisco, CA & Online
I do both counseling and LENS Neurofeedback. The Neurofeedback enables change to happen more quickly for most clients. It is excellent for TBI or concussions. I work with both children and adults. It is excellent for ADHD and anxiety as well as for migraines, insomnia, depression and anger. I am a seasoned therapist, thus I work with a wide range of challenges. I love all kinds of people and challenges. I have had a natural and sincere joy for my work since I was a young clinician. My work became even more fulfilling 8 years ago when I introduced LENS Neurofeedback because it is extremely effective and speeds up the transformative process...
Solistic Hypnosis

Solistic Hypnosis

5.0Exceptional(9)
7 hires on Thervo
2+ years in business
Serves San Francisco, CA & Online
Deborah L. says, "I got into hypnotherapy to gain a healthy relationship with food. I was mostly mindless of why I used food as a coping mechanism in regards to boredom, uncomfortable feelings, and a way to express affection or a reward. While working with Farzin, my hypnotherapist, I experienced positive and gentle guidance exploring why the behaviors and patterns exist. Farzin provided a safe place and true kindness. In doing this hypnosis work, I gained more clarity about my childhood and the impact of family dynamics, and recognized that these patterns have repeated in my adult life. Also, I gained an awareness of the differences between healthy and unhealthy choices, and the reasons behind why I make those unhealthy choices. Now, I have control over what I eat. I use the understanding of why to make different choices. I can say to others that after having this success, I know it's worthwhile investing in oneself, whatever the behavior may be that you would want to modify. Changing behavior is difficult but hypnosis is a great way to cut through the static and put energy towards the real core of the behavior." Read more
Relationship Therapy

Relationship Therapy

New on Thervo
46+ years in business
Serves San Francisco, CA & Online
Work with couples, families and individuals from a Gestalt and family systems perspective . 40 years experience seeing couples and families.Taught Couples therapy and Family Dynamics at California Institute of Integral Studies for 30 years. Love helping people find their direction I life.
Golda Michelson

Golda Michelson

New on Thervo
Serves San Francisco, CA
I have over 35 years of experience working with a wide range of populations. I work with adults, children , adolescents ,couples and families My approach is one of an integrated style of my many trainings. I am enjoy collaborating with you and to reach your goals. I enjoy seeing people grow and to be more fulfilled in their life
DOT Center - Individual & Couples Therapy

DOT Center - Individual & Couples Therapy

New on Thervo
1 hire on Thervo
8+ years in business
Serves San Francisco, CA
We are a counseling center providing personalized psychotherapy for individuals and couples. Our licensed clinicians are thoughtful, clinically skilled, and committed to helping clients with their mental wellness, relationships, and personal growth. We provide a free phone intake and consultation and will match you with the best clinician that fits your needs. Calls and emails are responded to within 24 hours so you can receive care as quickly as possible. We are available to meet with clients virtually as well....
Clark Counseling

Clark Counseling

New on Thervo
11+ years in business
Serves San Francisco, CA & Online
I bring my over 50 years of different employment positions and spiritual searching to my work with others. I throughly enjoy the CBT approach for its use of practical solutions which often work because of its basic logic and practical applications. I also have an ongoing interest in working with seizure and epilepsy clients because of my deep sense of understanding of seizure disorders from my childhood experience with being diagnosed as having epilepy. I am an LMFT in California. Helping others balance their emotional and relational worlds for the better. I also throughly enjoy working with clients who have seizure/epilepsy issues in their l
Lody Cura, LMFT, Psy. D

Lody Cura, LMFT, Psy. D

New on Thervo
22+ years in business
Serves San Francisco, CA & Online
Pls see my website at therapynext.com
The Firestone Group

The Firestone Group

New on Thervo
26+ years in business
Serves San Francisco, CA
We work with depression, anxiety, stress, life transitions, professional development, grief, trauma, relationships. Laura and Julie both have training working with couples using Emotionally Focused Therapy which addresses communication, intimacy, commitment and compatibility. Laura also ran a 6 week pre-marital group for engaged and newly married couples.

Your Couples Therapy questions, answered

Answers to commonly asked questions from the experts on Thervo.

How much does couples therapy cost?

Couples therapy costs $120 to $250 per session for in-person therapy or $90 to $230 per session for a virtual session. Your location, the therapist's experience, and the number of sessions you're buying also impact the price. Subscription services for online relationship counseling cost $50 to $100 per week.

Since most couples therapy lasts for 12 to 20 sessions, consider buying multiple sessions at once, as many therapists offer a reduced rate on multi-session packages.

Is couples therapy worth it?

Yes, couples therapy is worth it in most cases. Research shows about 75% of couples agree that emotionally focused therapy had a positive impact on their relationship.

To compare, getting a divorce costs $10,000 to $15,000 on average. Besides the high monetary expense, also consider the greater emotional costs of divorce, especially when children are involved.

Is couples therapy covered by insurance?

Most insurance companies do not cover couples therapy unless you or your partner has a medically diagnosed mental illness and the doctor prescribes therapy as part of the treatment.

If you or your partner work for a company that offers employer-sponsored group insurance, some businesses have Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) that often include individual and couples counseling.

How does couples therapy work?

In couples therapy, the therapist first assesses your personalities, needs, and triggers through conversation and often a written questionnaire. After assessing your relationship, the therapist works with you and provides you with tools to practice and improve your communication and conflict resolution skills.

The therapist may assign homework for you and your partner to work on alone or together in between sessions. The therapist may also schedule individual sessions to allow more open communication.

When should you go to couples therapy?

Any couple wanting to improve their relationship and communication could benefit from couples therapy. Emotional distance, infidelity, financial disagreements, lack of sexual intimacy, family challenges, and increased conflicts are all reasons to seek couples therapy.

How do I choose the best couples therapist near me?

When searching for couples therapy near you, be sure to:

  • Ask your primary care physician, trusted friends, or family members for recommendations.
  • Refer to the list of preferred providers if using your company’s Employee Assistance Program coverage.
  • Look for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists (LMFTs) with 2+ years of clinical experience.
  • Confirm their credentials and qualifications.
  • Read their reviews on Thervo, Google, and other online sources.

What questions should I ask when searching for a couples therapist?

Couples therapy is very personal. Consider asking the following question to help you find the best fit for you and your partner:

  • Are you a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT)?
  • How long have you been counseling couples?
  • What types of therapy do you specialize in?
  • Have you been successful helping other couples?
  • How long are your sessions?
  • How many sessions should we plan for?
  • What should we expect at our first session?
  • Do you assign homework between sessions?
  • What is your policy for cancellations, late arrivals, and missed appointments?
  • Do you offer a payment plan or sliding scale rates?

Reviews for San Francisco couples therapists

Recent success stories from people in the San Francisco area.
Lori U.
I’m so glad that my first time experiencing mind- body healing and breath work was with Lesley. This has only been my second session and I’ve already felt so much tension release in my entire body. Lesley has done such a good job on guiding me how to center myself and be in tune with my emotions, and my body. So much so that I’ve truly experienced the meaning of being free. My body felt like light as a feather which I never thought was possible. Truly feel grateful to have met Lesley and have her welcome me home.
Lesley Skoloff
Ashley H.
I've suffered from years of chronic pain and have had many massages in my life for that reason. Vaughn is hands down one of the best massages I've ever had. His knowledge of the anatomy and function of the musculoskeletal system is top notch and he is skilled in so many different massage techniques to tailor the massage specifically to what your body needs most. I highly recommend Vaughn!
Healing hands by vaughn
Leo H.
I took on hypnotherapy to improve myself which would in-effect improve my life. Before I would be held back by stress which wouldn't allow me to improve myself. With Farzin, I felt free to share anything without judgement and I was able to let go of what held me back from being my best self. In taking on the hypnotherapy work, I was able to expand my compassion and ability to forgive which set me free mentally, physically, and spiritually. From this freedom, I gained a newfound motivation to reach my goals. Now, life flows better and I feel a sense of self-improvement everyday. Stress doesn't hold me back! I see that anything is possible for me in life and that everything that happens to me is a gift. I know this hypnosis work serves me in a positive way because I say so! Here, I will be unwrapping presents for the rest of my life. To anyone who's wondering if hypnotherapy will help, please know from me that hypnosis will make you fly in life and Farzin will help you overcome your issues. Hypnosis with Farzin is the turning point towards your best life.
Solistic Hypnosis
Michelle V.
Debi takes the time to listen and help guide you through making decisions. She remains neutral at all times. You won’t find a better person to work on your relationship with.
Debi Stickeler, MA, CPC Individual and Relationship Coach
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