About
Here's the bio written about me:
Dr. Nicki J. Monti is not your typical therapist. She instantly gets to the core of presented issues, and immediately provides a clear path for genuine change. Her no-nonsense approach combines with extraordinary compassion and good humor to offer a clear, authoritative voice free of judgment and full of possibility.
Dr. Nicki’s successful book series about being Stuck In The Story No More, her Television appearances, her articles, and podcasts have made her into a household name. Dr. Nicki has been seen on Keeping Up with the Kardashians, Millionaire Matchmaker, Love Handles and many other Reality Television shows where her compassion, honesty and genuine expertise shine an instant light on circumstances and offer actual change.
I'm passionate about real change. I'm relentless, involved and invested. I know the value of real change as I've done it myself...and continue to continuously grow myself.
B ottom line of what I know: There is no other YOU
You are unique.
What I want for you it to discover your own unique, diverse, unrivaled self, and the ability to bring real love into your life and to maintain, healthy, loving relationships.
This is about ALL relationships: to self; to others; to family; to friends; to work; to life itself!
What's most needed is a change of perspective. I LOVE witnessing the ah ha's and seeing how life reflects true change.
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Frequently asked questions
What is your typical process for working with a new customer?
Discover, uncover and reveal. I like to jump right in. My sessions are very interractive and compassionate but forthright. I've been doing this for over thrity years and believe therapy is more art than science, so to some degree the approach depends on the client needs. I have dozens of tools in my tool-chest and pull out the one appropriate for the circumstance. I love clients to hav immediate realizations and take-aways. I then like to put process in their hands with homeowrk.
What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?
I am a Phd so the "education" part is to some degree obvious though I believe life is the best teacher. I'm an expert in self-esteem (because I've come form self-sabotage to self-love myself ad have guided thousands along a similar path); an expert in relationship (had lousy partnerships and early terrible marriages and now in a healthy marriage for 31 years) an many, many other areas. I was an actress for a long time and am still a writer (both fiction and on-fiction) so speak the 'language' of the artist (among other languages). I've studied with some of the world's greatest Psycho-spiritual teachers and have been exquisitely mentored. All-in-all I've many strings to my bow. Plus, I love, love, love my work.
Do you have a standard pricing system for your services? If so, please share the details here.
$200 per hour.
How did you get started in this business?
Long story...better told in person !!
What types of customers have you worked with?
From all walks of life. Artists of all kinds; Couples; Families; CEO's; Entrepreneus; business parttners; name it, I've done it.
Describe a recent event you are fond of.
My greates pleasure is to witness clients beginning to make truly emotionally healthy choices for themselves. In today's challenging, sress-laden, technologically frantic world this is often harder than it sounds. Rather than site a particular event I'll say I watch everyday the courageous, intentional individuals and couples I work with bravely move through their resistance to intentionally manifest a brighter tomorrow. It's thrilling.
What advice would you give a customer looking to hire a pro in your area of expertise?
It's like any relatinship...see if there's chemistry.
What questions should customers think through before talking to pros about their needs?
Be authentic and speak to genuine concerns.