Dana Cole, MFT

Dana Cole, MFT

1 employee
31 years in business

About this pro

Are you sick of fighting? Maybe you have a good relationship that could be better - or want to learn how to be in relationship. Everyone has irresolvable issues. Never do we have the exact same desire for money in the bank, sexual frequency, social activities, neatness, or parenting ideas (etc.) This is built-in conflict. This built-in conflict carries with it the seeds for growth and connection that would not happen in any other way. Living in distress is so awful and so curable. Call me, let's talk.
We all want to be seen and heard. It is hard to see our partner when they refuse to see us. This is the basis for the power struggle that every client knows about. The frustrations that come from this power struggle offer growth and insight that cannot be obtained in any other way.
It really can be easier, you can understand and apply what it takes to be connected again, or for the first time. I know how to show you this, I know how to bring you to understanding what to do next. I have helped many couples with these issues: I can help you.
It takes a lot to get into my office, but your well-being is the most important thing you have, it is the only thing you really have 24 hours a day.  Living in distress is so awful, and so curable.


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Oakland, CA 94611
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What is your typical process for working with a new customer?

A couple or individual calls me to make an appointment. We find a time on Tuesday or Thursday to meet.

What education and/or training do you have that relates to your work?

I trained with Harville Hendrix, author of "Getting the Love You Want" in the early 90's. His work has informed mine. He also is credited by Oprah who had him on many times and credited him with helping her find and understand her good relationship with Stedman, her life partner.

Do you have a standard pricing system for your services? If so, please share the details here.

I charge $175/hr, and see couples for 1.5 hours, which comes to $262.