Nothing gets me more excited than seeing people turn their dreams into reality and move past whatever blocks, fears or limiting beliefs that have held them back.
I create a safe space for you to tell your truth and to embrace all sides of yourself to begin releasing the old habbits and forming new ones that are healthy and productive. You will be empowered to make moves every week towards your goals and dreams. You will feel the results immediately!
I have been effectively coaching entrepreneurs, sales people and men doing transformational work for over 25 years.
I help entrepreneurs navigate the multiple aspects of owning a business, creating effective systems for: sales, marketing, production, hiring, training, finances, product development etc. I also will support you through the emotional landscape of overwhelm and have lots of tools to help deal with the stress and anxiety of owning your own business.
For 28 years I've been working with men to increase their emotional awarenss, express themselve fully and responsibly and to meet others eye to eye with their truth and strength. When working with me, Men develop the courage to live into a new model of being a man that is both powerful and vulnerable. This creates an aliveness, joy and freedom that is beyond what most men can even imagine.
I am also a professional musician having toured the world with famous Jazz musicians and recorded dozens of CDs. The "Jeff Stitely Quartet - JSQ" toured Europe and put out 3 CDs the first of which won the distinguished award of "Top 10 Jazz CDs of the year" by both WBEZ and the Chicago Sun Times.
I've run my own music production company "Stitely Entertainment" for 25 years.I am a black belt in Tai Kwon Do and am a life long meditator. In 2019 I spent 5 weeks in India meditating and following the pointings of Mooji.
I was trained by the Wright Foundation for 30 years doing a ton of my own personal work as well as coaching others. I joined a tranformational leadership program in 1991 and we developed "The Men's Guild" and "The Men's Basic Training" to support men with their emotional awareness and to live from purpose and passion. I have done a dozen fire walks, extensive rebirthing breath work and recently graduated from an intensive "Virtual Coach Next Step" training with Eben Pagan.
I have two daughters 18 and 21 and am widowed after my wife fought cancer like a warrior for 7 years. I love playing drums, dancing, live music, theatre, deep conversation and my morning routine of working out, meditation and green smoothies.
I'd love to work with you. Give me a call for a free session to see what you can accomplish with my suport.
I feel enlivened and open-hearted supporting others to tell their deepest truths, fears, dreams and then to use all that freed up energy to move toward accomplishing what they want in life.
When people get their body, mind and spirit all aligned, the universe shifts to support them in ways unimagined. My job is to listen, create a safe space and be a catalyst to help them speed up the process of creating what they want. Each session ends with a step by step, clear plan with a commitment for what you will do before the next session. Each session has a clear Next Step. These build on each other until you have created the life you have always wanted.
My clients inspire me to walk my talk consistently so this is a co-created process and results are celebrated!
I really like his quality of listening, as well as his input. He gets a good feel for my situation and my concerns first, and then beautifully gets to the heart of some key-issues. This enables me to see many things more clearly. After our last coaching-session, I took a very important action step that I had recognized as necessary in the session, it made a big difference. Also, the light atmosphere that he creates is very refreshing. I look forward to our next coaching session.
Jeff’s coaching is patient and understanding but he is totally direct in a way that makes you see yourself from the outside. Since working with Jeff, I have truly felt that anything is possible and then I get up and do it. My new understanding of “what it takes” has changed from feeling overwhelmed, to accomplishing one thing at a time, to waking up with clear mind and space so that my room to grow is limitless. My finances, relationships and businesses have all stepped onto a whole new indestructible platform and I can’t thank Jeff enough for graciously giving me the tools that are right for me. I would highly recommend Jeff Stitely as your coach!
I ask a series of questions about what you want to move towards and/or move away from. I listen with no judgement then reflect back to you all that you said. It's amazing just to be heard at that level. Then we look at what you will get out of accomplishing these things. It's amazing how many layers deeper we can go around what you really want.
Then we create a plan on what you will do between now and the next session to move forward as quickly as possible. I have dozens of tools to use to help work through fears, blocks, limiting beliefs, guilt, shame or whatever comes up so that all aspects of you get aligned. That minimizes or even eliminates the internal struggle with yourself that you've been doing for a good long while.
You will build self confidence and courage as each step builds on the last. Next thing you know, a transformation has happened and you are not the same person you were at the beginning of the process.
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