Dynamic Human Developmens
About
I am a relationship coach specilizing in saving and improving relationships. Relationship coaching is an offshoot of my consulting firm Dynamic Human Developments. We have been in operation since 2005.
https://dhdglobal.org/
My book, The relationship Saver (http://RelationshipSaver.org )with a companion book The Gameless Relationship, http://relationshipsaver.com/ has sold in dowloadable format almost 80,000 times. Hundreds if not thousands relationships and marriages were saved.
I believe that there are only few justifiable reasons for breaking a relationship. I also believe that quality of our lives are directly proportional to quality of our relationships. The name of my firm, Dynamic Human Developments expresses my passion for people having happy and productive lives.
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Frequently asked questions
What is your typical process for working with a new customer?
It never takes more than three or four sessions to put a relationship on the right track. I usuall talk with each person separately first. If one of the partners wants out, I do not bring them in at all.
What types of customers have you worked with?
I never work with people who want out of a relationship. Every relationship is a reactive which means that in any relationship partners constantly react to each other. In disagreements this often leads to an unstoppable downward spiral until a relationship is all but disintegrated.
Positive changes in one's behavior inevitably produce a postive reaction in the other partner. So, I work only with people who want to stay in the relationship. This could be one person or both.
What advice would you give a customer looking to hire a pro in your area of expertise?
- I seem to be common nowadays to see a psychologists to council you about your relationship. This is not necessary unless you have real mental problems. A relationship coach would be a better choice.
- Marriage counselors usually work witH both partners. That is OK unless one partner wants out. Do not bring them to counseling. Trying to convince someone in what they don't believe in is a tedious and often impossible job. There are much better ways.
What questions should customers think through before talking to pros about their needs?
- Am I the one who wants to improve and save my relationship, or am I the one who wants out?
- Am I willing to give up the right to be right?
- Do I have reason for being in this relationship/marriage?
- Am I willing to change some of my behaviors and stick with it.